Even if one was an asshole most of the time to ones father, one can mourn him keenly on Father's Day.

I could have been a better son to my father. I will not be able to weigh the pluses and negatives of my filial life accurately. It's one of those tasks that could be best left to the last judgement. I'm with the existentialists on that one, one of whom said, "Don't ask for the last judgement. It is every day".

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